Magnet of Love

Here's the thing, Bluo. I was just watching this movie on Youtube, 'Beauty and the Briefcase' starring Hilary Duff. It's about a woman who's finding for her 'magic man' aka dream man or in better words, true love. She was in secret, an undercover writer for a fashion magazine company. They hired her to do a write up about falling in love in the business world. So, she ended up working in this financing company which was filled with men...a dream of every women in search for her 'magic man'. LOL! Oh! I forgotten to mention that she had this checklist for the man of her dreams. It's like her policy or something for her man to pass everything on her checklist such as being spontaneous, sexy accent, etc. So, she's been on A LOT of dates but those men passes a 3 out of 10 on her checklist. Finally, she found one who has a total of 0/10. And she thought, well she thought he was definitely not the one until she came to realize that there was a pattern and he ended up being her 'magic man'. Isn't that a surprise? Someone who does not live up to her checklist at all turns out to be her one and only true love.

In fact, it's not a surprise at all. When I watched the ending, I was kind of impressed. I mean really, if you actually observe most of the couples now, they are practically the opposite of each other. The woman likes something and the guy likes something else. You know how a magnet works? An attraction only lives up when there's two opposite sides facing each other. I think it applies to a relationship as well. Being the opposite of your soul mate isn't exactly the worse thing in your life. There are people out there whom I know are looking for 'chemistry' or 'sparks' in their love life. But being the total opposite of each other can be your true 'chemistry' or 'sparks'. Imagine learning so much from the person who's the exact opposite of you. You may not have likes whatever he/she does but when you begin to learn and experience it with them, it'll become a liking and you'll start to enjoy it. Being different from him/her creates a lifetime learning from each other and it'll feel like a fresh relationship which will never bore you. There's just so many things you can learn from the person whom is the exact opposite of you. Just look at it in the positive direction and you'll find that being with someone who's not you, is just so refreshing and enlightening.

That's all for now, Bluo. I just wanted to share my thoughts while it's still fresh in my head. Hehehe...Goodnight now. Sweet dreams.